Kevin and I have had a lot of conversations these past couple weeks. All of them incredibly difficult. We’ve had to discuss the fact that, for the last two years, I had fallen in and out-of-bounds, romantic love with Greg.

From the inception of our communal friendship, Kevin has voiced, time and again, his discomfort about the intensity and private nature of that relationship. I am ashamed to admit it, but I listened to his clear communication of boundaries, and I disregarded them, time and again.

Kevin had a lot to say about individual moments of joy and fun in our collective dynamic, but the group has been premised on something completely antithetical to our wedding vows.

I have been emotionally cheating on Kevin with Greg for years.

We need to take a break. I have to rebuild Kevin’s trust and secure not only our marriage but the fledgling new life we have taking root in DC.