A message to just Jeffry:

And just so you know, we’re going to have to candidly discuss Tony.

He was my sole link to our shared community.

The last real conversation I had with him was at the MLK Cabin Trip last January. We were coming down from mushrooms — him, Kev and me.

I told them I was so happy to be lying in bed with my husband and best friend.

Tony asked if I could FaceTime Greg.

I’d like to keep this between you and me at this time, btw. But it’s okay if you told Greg already.

I think I’ll want to talk to you this weekend.

Let me check w Kev, because I want to respect his boundaries too.

Sound good?

You can respond.