Hey Liz,

Since mine departed a year ago, I’ve been doing a lot of writing on philosophies of family — mainly trying to structure one as a self-enclosed distribution/ecosystem of emotional labor.

It seems you’re in a v similar battle with setting boundaries as I am, and I’m wondering if you’re advancing toward a stage of setting actual borders.

I think I just articulated something on the matter that I’ve been working toward daily for the last year, and I’m curious your thoughts!

TK